Is your attitude stopping you from health, wealth and happiness? Do people scatter to get out of your way? Do you wake up waiting to give a person a piece of your mind? Are you the bitter party of one? Do you hold on to past hurts? Do you have few relationships? You could be suffering from “BADTUDEITIS!” It’s a very toxic disease that hinders you from living your best life with health, wealth and happiness.
There are many reasons you feel your bad attitude is deserved. A bad attitude is not something you just have for a day; it has adopted itself as your trustworthy friend and is been with you for years. Yikes!!
Bad attitudes can arise due to something that has happened to you in the past and you haven’t let it go. You can’t because there is not vindication for the wrong that was performed and if you let it go then the pain somehow loses its punch. They have to feel your pain!!
This rolls right into unforgiveness. Forgiving a person releases you from bondage not them. Another person’s health is never affected because of your attitude which is what you wanted right? They don’t get hypertension, migraines, TMJ, constipation, mood swings, depression, insomnia, ulcers….. , which cause shortness and an unfulfilling of life.
Unforgiveness is the root of some mental illnesses. It has the ability to change your appearance to a permanent stank face.
Self-protection: Your attitude protects you from people getting to know you and hurting you again.
Entitlement: I deserve to feel like this because of past transgression. Most prejudices are formed because of something has happened in one’s past.
Ridding yourself of BADTUDEITIS takes thought and practice. Our bodies are so intricate. Emotions dictate out moods. A positive attitude can even cure cancer.
These are simple steps to rid you of the nasties:
First, rid yourself of other negative Nellies. You don’t need a consigner, “birds of a feather”.
Two: Speak happy thoughts over one’s self daily. Learn to say I love me. Every day is a new day to start
Three: Smile and laugh which release happy endorphins which give natural energy.
Four: FOREGIVE!! Forgiving a person will give a new lease on life. That doesn’t mean they get to continue to abuse you, it means you walk away with discernment. By being sweet you will heap hot coals on their head. They won’t know what to do with you. But the most important thing is: FORGIVE YOURSELF!!! Everyone has horrible baggage called memories. Rid yourself of the torn grocery bags and keep the Gucci memories. Those hindering memories are just reference and have not place in your life now.
You will be more pleasant to work with and you will be the example of a leader in your workplace. A happy productive worker is a paid worker and you will see how many people will rally around you with support and maybe even a raise. Cream rises to the top.
Now go out and conquer the world and see how a better disposition will help you create, wealth, health and a better you!!!!